Sorry, I have posted about this issue a bit in the last while. I am feeling pretty vulnerable though.
3 yo dcb made a comment about wanting to go to a different dc as he doesn't want to take a nap anymore (parents can't get him to nap but he naps with me). Now mom picked him up yesterday and commented about dcb being the only boy now (this was never an issue previously). When she dropped him off this morning he had a "Spiderman" toy in hand and mom made a comment "to balance out all the estrogen in here." Now dcb tells me today (more then once) that he doesn't like being the only boy and he wants a boy to play with. His best friend is my daughter and dcb has always preferred playing with her (even when there had been other boys).
When dcb made the initial comment re: wanting another dc I spoke with the mom asking if she was happy with the daycare and she said she was. I would almost sound super paranoid if I ask her about this again.
The comment the mom made about there being no boys actually kind of pissed me off if truth be told. What kind of msg does that give my daughter, that she's not "good enough?" What msg are we telling girls and boys in general, stick to your own kind? My daughter plays all the games he wants to play and he plays her games as well. I feel that the mom made this comment, spoke to her son about it and made it his issue when it was really just her issue...I'm stressed about this. What should I do?