Screaming to indicate a need instead of using words is normal yes and so are gestures and pointing and foot stomping. But has been described is something over and beyond what is normal and not something that can be accommodated in group care. The child has made it very clear by their actions that they do not want to be around other children. This is one of those cases where a suggestion to the parent to look into either a nanny for one on one or to a daycare centre where they have access to professionals for support would do child, parent, provider and daycare children a service. As Judy said this situation is not fair to anyone.