Since the kids will grow up not allowed peanut products at school I just don't serve them at daycare either although it is so tempting when kids get to the won't chew other meat proteins stage. The fact the allergy is not anaphylactic in nature at the moment means I would read labels but not be fretful about them BUT mom must store an epipen at the daycare for your use.

My family still uses peanut butter and I even eat peanut butter cookies during naptime but I brush my teeth and scrub my hands well when done, etc. Family knows they must use a plate, only put the peanut butter knife in the far sink etc. I had another child for 3 years whose sister had an allergy so they just wanted him not exposed just in case and that is where the family protocol started and now it is just habit so wasn't as big a deal once current child was diagnosed.

Good news is that because her reaction was only rash/hives/redness doctor said she would probably outgrow it and after a year when retested it is now borderline status so it could be a lot more temporary than you think as in the child I have has to actually eat it for there to be a reaction where as some react to touch or even smell.