It is up to you to decide how much you are willing to do to keep this family. The first family I accepted were vegans. I was reluctant to take them on, but didn't know I would fill up before I even opened, so I took them on. A year later, this little boy is my little sunshine, and I would cook any kind of weird concoction they want me to just to keep him. Family is wonderful, and I am so glad I made allowances. Would I be willing to stop serving peanut products (which I don't serve anyway since I have mostly little ones?) to keep him now if asked? In a heartbeat. Great clients who appreciate us and pay on time, with adorable little ones who behave themselves, are worth it in my book.