The word no is not used by many parents I find. I hear lots of barganing and parents trying to coax and beg their children to give them dangerous things. I hear them asking ten times over, thinking that the eighth time they ask will be more effective than the first or second. I am still amazed by the tylenol incident. It was a large bottle too. I did remind her that I had to have medication in a locked box behind a locked door as that is government regulations. She seemed unfazed by the incident. Mind you all three of her children are lacking severely in boundaries.