Your menu sounds awesome but my dckids wouldn't eat some of that, they are picky and like things plain, don't even use sauces or dips except for an occasional tiny bit of ketchup and mustard. You know how I make my life easier? No soups, stews, applesauce or anything else that spills. I serve all finger foods/fork/spoon foods. I do serve yogurt but at least it sticks to the spoon. I have a rug under my dining room table so they have to learn about soup and stew at home.