Thanks for the advice everyone...I told dad this morning that I don't feel comfortable doing it and won't do it, but will also tell him about the insurance part of it ( I never thought of that). All in all I think I just may have to let them go as much as I don't want to its just too much of a risk and liability with having her here and all the other children too.

I love this forum and all of you for helping me out and giving me such good advice