I interviewed a potential family, and they have asked me for references. To be honest, they are the first family that have asked me for a formal list of references, . most of my other children have come to me via word of mouth, where the referring family has spoken nice things about me.

I am thinking of asking my current families, plus a few of my past families. How many references should I have, do you think 3 or 4 is enough? How do you compile your reference lists? Do you think I should ask some I my DCP friends that I know? I know hey would say nice stuff about me. Lol