I am in the same boat, I had agreed to take one of my dc kids afterschool when she started Primary, but now, 2 years later, I have decided not to offer B/A school care. I love her and her whole family, and she is a best friend of my daughter's so of course it will be hard to do, but as the other ladies have said, we need to put those personal feelings aside. I am going to give notice in Sept that this is the last year for her.