I will PM you Littlefeet...I already do most of what you posted here. I sing about everything and he loves it and never has problems. He actually behaves really well...follows along...no tantrums. It's just that he doesn't communicate much and plays mostly independently. I think he does well with me because I follow a very predictable routine and he has been with me since he was a baby. He rarely gives me trouble ( unless I tell him not to do something and then he swats at me or scratches me). I would like to help him learn pretend play, social interactions, but it's tough because he doesn't talk much.