I have a dcg just turned 2, parents just notified me that they are doing the 3 day potty training method, ie: new parents. I email them with my expectations that she needs to be accident free for 2 weeks before I will agree to have her only in underwear. They email back telling me that they understand and that they will keep her home longer as dcd is on holidays to hopefully secure dcg success in being accident free. They want her in underwear all the time even during naptime even in the even of accidents here I tried politely to explain that if dcg has several accident a day, and during naptime that I will have to give her pullups as I don't have the time to continually be on clean up duty. Im not sure that they are hearing me, or that they even get it?? I have never had success with potty training in 3 days, nor have no accidents after 2 weeks. I have raised 4 daughters and they all were trained differently. What are your daycare expectations for potty training and how many accidents per day do you allow before demanding parents to allow the use of pullups? Im wondering and a bit concerned that my dcg may be terminated or they may pull her if I don't comply. Are there daycare or dayhomes that allow continuing potty training accident daily? Advice please