Hello! I have a DCB who is 3.5 years old. He has always been too afraid to use the toilet here so has remained in pull ups. I was on holidays the last 2 weeks and started back today. mom says he has been doing great with the toilet the past 2 weeks, other than pooping. He will not poop on the toilet (he has never even told me when he has pooped). She has asked that I keep him in undies all day. What are your rules when dealing with potty training and poop? I'd rather them stay in pull ups until they can at least tell me that they pooped. Just looking to see what other dayhomes do.

Thank you!!!