Early Childhood has rules that apply to everyone. I don't care if you call your child moe or buttercup or appledumpling at home. At school he or she will be called by the name on their birth certificate or a childlike version if requested ie Sammy for Samuel or Billy for William. If a name change has already been picked then as the parent you are free to get the birth certificate legally changed and then your child will be called the name on the certificate - end of problem. It is not the school's requirement to change their policy to accommodate you - it is your responsibility to get the birth certificate changed to the name you desire your child to be called to meet the enrolment policy.
Similar arguments for most of your other concerns but I think you get the point.




































