LOL Betsy....
You're funny.
I remember when I first came here and would post about certain things, rather than it turning into a healthy debate and differing ways to do things...It looked and felt as if it was a full on attack on who I was or the way I raised my child. No matter how much I explained the hole got deeper, and hate came out to rear its lovely head....When in reality I just wanted an adult chat and opinion. (not everyone did this, but some sure did)