Moderating the forum

[Cadillac]

OMG!!!!

I gotta say: When I first came to this forum a couple years ago, it was phenomenal!!! People REALLY and TRULY helped one another. I remember post after post of cute things provider's kids would do, sharing stories, and when someone had a question if was actually freakin ANSWERED!!!!!

I stopped posting so often, even stopped checking up on the site because of what has happened. There are people here who have gotten some sort of god complex along the way. questions stopped being answered, people started getting mauled when the poster didn't have the whole story! (because honestly, if your only asking about 'xyz' why do you need to know the rest of the alphabet?) people forget that when unfoundingly changing the subject from the question about the child and start belittling the provider . . . or parent for that matter.

I could literally post a question about how to get a child to eat bananas and I bet anything by the end of the thread I'd be questioned on my menu, told I was a terrible provider and even told to terminate the freakin family . . . over a freakin BANANA

The fact that there are moderators on this site should tell you ladies something . . . . SOMETHING IS WRONG!

these thread are no longer discussions that are helpful, its no longer reading different opinions and have debates or discussions, its BULLYING!!!!! down right bullying.

So you got what you some of you really really need . . . a freakin' recess monitor.

deal with it . . . . because it is soooo needed here.