I agree with the other suggestions. When I first opened I had one of these and to be honest, it drained the energy out of me and sucked all the fun out of the daycare.
I was too shy to talk to her about it so I finally ended up letting her go (today I would handle this differently)
When she left, the fun came back and I was able to relax again.Since then I do not accept parents like this .
This mother used to spy on us through windows, sneak up on us while in the yard etc...
Anyways,I still see her now and then and she still has all the same worries with the new DCP even though she has had her daughter there for a couple years now.( She has been in 5 different daycares in 2.5 years)