Just some info for ladies that are trying without success. You can get referral to a fertility clinic after you've been trying for a yr unsuccessfully (they don't know so you can stretch the truth) they may do it sooner if you are reaching the later childbearing years. It is completely free. I did this when trying for my first as we were not having much luck. It is a huge commitment though. You go in and get daily blood and urine tests (they had very early clinic hours so you could go before work) around your ovulation cycle so they can determine when you should get busy. I got pregnant just with this. They also connected me with a specialist (rheumatolgy and pregnancy) who also helped get me on better medication for my illness that didn't effect getting pregnant.

There are other low cost options as well including (don't remember what it is called) injecting semen inside with essentially a turkey baster to help the little guys out (this was around $300 I think)...might speed things up for those of us watching the clock!