Poor you! Nothing grates on my nerves more than that; I so feel for you! Something that has worked for me is setting up a playpen; put her in as soon as she starts crying....perhaps with a security item if she has it. For my crier, she was used to a quiet home and kaboom, suddenly is on the floor, with all of this stimulation around her (running kids, new noises...). I think the playpen was a safe zone for her. Just a thought. Best of luck!