Omigosh Madmom, that's horrible! The child sounds uncontrollable, so needs anger management and discipline and needs lessons about manners. I'm sure you have done your very best on a daily basis. But you know who is at fault? Unfortunately it is the parenting, which means that as much as you like the parents they are not doing their job and they are going to pay the price when this child goes to school and especially when he is a teenager.

If you can't get through to them that they aren't doing their child any favours whatsoever by letting him run amok then you have to take care of yourself, your family and the other children in your daycare. I had a very violent 2 year old child in my first year in business and I terminated the family for that very reason. Think about how great it will be for ALL of you when this child is gone. Yes, give them the letter!