Thanks everyone. I considered asking her to find another dc as there are other issues as well but her child is mostly well behaved and it's slow around here right now so who knows when I would fill my spot and I can't take the decrease in my pay. The issues are nothing major they are just annoying but it's more to do with the mom so it's not the end of the world right now.

I think I will be making quiet time boring as some of you suggested. If she falls asleep I won't be waking her up. I feel that she is too young and needs her sleep. She had a major meltdown the first day with no nap when her mom picked her up at home time which is not like her. She was exhausted though!!