Please put me at ease...

[torontokids]

I would do it. I think her thinking is probably along the lines of males being more likely to be an offender (sexual, physical etc). As unfair as this is, it is supported by stats and the reality is if there is nothing to hide and you already said you would do one then do it. It will put the mom at ease. Plus is sounds like you have a yr old check available to them and I am guessing there is no check on your husband.