Please put me at ease...

[2cuteboys]

It was one of my agency's requirements that my husband have one.

I would if a parent asked and were willing to pay for it. He's occasionally around and not that he's ever alone with the kids when he is, but if the parents would feel more comfortable if he had one it's fine by me. I'd rather that than a parent see him home one day and get weirded out and ask their kids probing questions.