Thanks for the ideas and support ladies
I ended up terming my dhg who is one day a week this morning. I hated having to do it, but I think it's the right thing for myself, the other dhc and her. She had a complete meltdown fit when dhm dropped her off, I had to carry her kicking and screaming upstairs to the main level and she screamed and cried for 10 min, calmed down for a few but still refused to come join the group. Then she started crying harder and saying "I don't want to be here, I want Mommy". So I called dhm, she came to get her and that was that.
It feels as if a small weight has been lifted, so I'll see how things go with the group as it is now for a bit and make a decision if I need to term anyone else.


































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