They want a What???

[5 Little Monkeys]

I feel that if I were to say a flat out no to a request like that, that it would raise red flags for the family and word of mouth travels fast!!

I know for me, if I were the parent and the provider said no, it would concern me and wonder why they said no. So I guess if I were to say no, I would also offer an explanation of why I am not open to doing it.

Edited...I think about it this way. If something were to happen to my child in a hdc I wouldn't want to find out later that if I had investigated further I would have seen that this hdcp may have had a report of abuse. I'm not saying that any of you have reports of abuse but we all know that there are some hdcp's that shouldn't be providing care I don't find it as a parent being high maintenance but rather one who is protecting their child. Wouldn't you do the same?