Yep, you always tend to feel bad for these kids. My ds, behaviour issues and all, still has his teachers and ea's eating out of his hand because he's likeable. My busy little dcb that is VERY active and into everything is one of the most likeable kids I've ever watched.... yet I had a dcg last year who was well behaved, (once she settled in with me), quiet, but a tad bit strange and "unlikeable". I had to work that much harder with her to keep patience