Thanks everyone, things are looking brighter already this morning. Apparently dcd gave fed her something she shouldn't eat, and she had another runny poop later on that night that made her red too.

I really do like like this little girl with the exception of naps (she doesn't cry during the day anymore). I guess I just feel a bit like I need to prove myself because dcm works in the early childhood field. I think I'm just getting into my own head too much.