I'm looking for advice here. I have a 2 year old in care who has become recently a huge handful. Things in the first few months were perfect, the family was great and the child was really well behaved. Soon started hitting, biting and pushing. He's given other kids a black eye. So far we have all managed it no problem, redirect and encourage good behavior etc. It's just getting worse instead of better. Today was a breaking point for me. I literally blinked and he had been smearing poo all over my house. Obviously for health reasons this was a huge disaster. Other toddlers and a baby around. Poo everywhere and him in the bath meant for a not safe situation. I immediately called mom saying he had no spare clothes and I couldn't have this behavior at daycare and I was at my breaking point. She seemed to laugh it off and was mad she would need to leave work to pick him up. Then she tells me he will leave today and they will find other arrangements going forward. I never mentioned termination, simply that the behavior needed to be rectified. No apologizes or anything for this. I donno, now I feel upset for calling her. Was I in the wrong?