I've had issues with milk too...I had one who was having so much ( I think 4-5 bottles per day total) that she always had runny poops and therefore lots of bad diaper rashes. I tried hinting and hinting and finally they cut back to just one at daycare instead of two and it made a huge difference.

I also won't do a bottle at naptime because of it rotting teeth and also because I find kids who fall asleep with a bottle don't sleep as well because when they wake at some point during naptime they need a bottle to go back to sleep again. Same with soothers, when I start out a little one I try to cut this out too from day one.