I raised my babies following the attachment parenting style BUT I always knew from the get- go that I would always be a stay at home mom and that they would not be in daycare. I definitely don't think that attachment parenting is appropriate if they are going back to work at 12 months because that would just turn the poor child's world upside down. And as a side note, if I were to have a third child, I wouldn't do attachment parenting again.