I have a 20 th anniversary baby and I was soo out of baby mode and child practises had changed soo much I felt like a first timer !!! She was nicknamed 'high maintenance' by the nurses and I was offended until I realized they were right ! Lol it took awhile for me to get the hang of things !!! My point is I wouldn't of sent her to daycare unless I thought she was prepared as much as possible !! It amazes me when a dcp says this is how he/she likes it and I'm thinking I'm a Dayhome not grandmas house !!! I want to make my dck safe , happy and learning and growing but can't accommodate 5 different ways of doing things !!