Attachment Parenting.....

[mom-in-alberta]

I don't have an issue with AP parenting in the EARLY YEARS. It's not my style, and I would not label the way I have raised my kids as AP in any shape.
However, I agree that it seems grossly unfair to the child to carry them whenever they wish to be carried, let them nurse or cuddle to sleep, and in general cater to their emotional wants/needs immediately for 12 months, and THEN dump them into daycare. I don't know a single daycare that could accomodate the true AP philosophy. Some might be able to do more than others, but in general, multi-child care makes it unlikely or impossible.
I feel badly for providers and the children placed in these type of situations.
I would also be getting in touch with mom and letting her know what your concerns are. Remind her what your naptime protocol is, and try to get her on board. Give a definite timeline for improvement. It may not be perfect, but if he gets better as time passes, I would be hopeful.