I have a new 14th child who is having a hard time adjusting to our nap routine and cries. Perhaps not unusual, but I have never had a child that cries prior to naps. I still nurse my daughter to sleep and just don't know what to do with this new little one. Is 20minutes an ok length to let the child cry? I'm tempted to go in and reassure the child, but I fear upsetting everything and making harder to fall asleep. I cannot sit and cuddle as I have my own child to take care of as well. I do know that this child is still nursed at home, but apparently doesn't have issues falling asleep when it is only Daddy. I should mention to that the child is part time and only started in the last couple of weeks. Thanks for your input