Quote Originally Posted by martymonty View Post
I do want to be clear, I do not let any of the dck go to the bathroom with anyone else, they all go in by themselves and have the door shut behind them for privacy. I do agree it has become a habit as the doctor has told this dcm that nothing is wrong with her children so they should be able to go longer than 20-30 min. without peeing especially after they have gone the first time. bottom line is I do not like the way she handled this at all, I am not a child and have been doing daycare for over 27 years. I know lots of people who have that cute little sign posted on their bathroom walls, if it's yellow, let it mellow, if it's brown flush it down. some people have septic systems, wells, etc. I really did not think it was a huge deal to have the two of them go and then flush, but obv. it was to the mom so I won't do it again. just don't like being told how to run "my" business and this is not the first time I've had encounters with this mom.
Honestly just don't flush the toilet. She will never know. I am a "if it's yellow keep it mellow"kinda gal...not all the time but sometimes. I don't see the big deal UNLESS you have little ones who like to explore the toilet. She doesn't get to decide whether or not you flush the toilet!