OMG, I could have written this about my "handful" LOL

Her parents are the same, they indulge their children and the kids get away with murder!! I won't even bother going on as lots of it are the same issues as you. Dad has told mom that maybe they are spoiled and mom has said yes they are but they are her children and she will spoil them if she wants.

I don't sugar coat things for mom or dad anymore. If she has a bad day here I tell them. I discipline her here for what she has done and it's up to them to deal with the behaviour at home (if they even do). Mom has said they have tried doing some things I do here at home and I don't know if she actually is or not but the child's behaviour has improved. She could also just be learning what I expect at daycare though. Mom has mentioned that I am more strict than they are but I know dad appreciates this lol.

I try not to think about their parenting (or lack of lol) anymore and just deal with the child and her behaviour while she is here. I too fear what she will be like as she gets older but once she is in school she won't be my problem!! I have tried to tell mom but she is content with her parenting so she can deal with the result. It sucks though because she could be such a sweet girl but due to her parents parenting, it is her that is going to suffer.