Update....
After I thought about it some more I called dc mom to find out what was really going on. She said yes they did find nits in dcb hair last night so they treated it. Dad had not quite told me everything. Turns out older brother had this on the weekend and the parents did not think to check the 2 year old until last night. So he was here all day yesterday and the dcps did not think to let me know that big brother had lice on the weekend! I was livid and told mom they had to pick up their son. She thought since it had been treated that he was no longer 'contagious' for lack of a better word. I said yes, you need to keep him home 24 hours to check him And make sure all the nits are gone. Then... Oh the nerve... She asked if I could come pick her up from her work and take her and her son home as she does not have a vehicle and dad does not want to be interrupted at work!! I was so mad I told her I would call her back. In the meantime I guess she called dad and told him and dad called me right away and offered to come get dcb right away.
Wow. I'm still mad at mom's nonchalance and the nerve to ask me to drive her. It may be a cultural thing but NO you can take a taxi and come get him! Not my problem! Dad was very nice and apologetic, he said whatever I want they will do, they really like me and don't want to cause any problem.
Now I am wondering if I should ask him to stay home tomorrow or what... I am washing everything today and checking myself and my kids. Will also wash with tea tree oil.
I will definitely be revamping my illness policy to include more info on lice and asking parents to be sure to let me know if any siblings have anything like this or communicable illnesses.
Ugh.. I am feeling so itchy now!!