I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I went through this, and it is singlehandedly the worst thing that has ever happened to me. The baby was our third as well, and started with spotting, which got heavier, followed by the tests and the awful waiting. I actually had an appointment with the Early Pregnancy Assessment appointment on the Monday following my spotting and tests, but Sunday I had the miscarriage. I was broken emotionally. I was only 6 weeks, but that baby's future was so real in my mind and so many plans for her were made in those short few weeks. Because I didn't know what to expect, and because I was so heart broken, I ended up taking the week off. None of my families batted an eye, and all were so supportive and caring. Hopefully, your little one is holding on strong, but if it is indeed growing his or her wings early I DO know exactly how you are feeling and I am here for you to cry/talk/vent/ask questions. Feel free to PM me. The only light in our lives was that we conceived my now 11 month old, two weeks after saying goodbye to the one that didn't make it. I'm here if you need me.