I get dkg at 6:30 am , just turned 3 , I am experienced in parenting , but I am clueless in dealing with this child. She is getting so disruptive , she is so cheeky and is getting to the point where I am one on one with her all day . Yesterday she was going around to other kids and screaming in their faces scaring them . She has a hard time playing at all but when she does she will just take over what someone else is playing with . My day home is full and there are children she could be friends with but no one enjoys playing with her. Yesterday I finally put out a blanket and gave her toys and books and she had abit of alone play ( still right with us ) she threw the toys , bit the rug under the blanket (area rug ) and started chanting "whatever" at me. So I just went on with play . I told her as soon as she stopped she could join us for circle time but she crossed her arms and sat , being very loud and just doing anything for attention . So I started circle time , looking for any break in her behaviour but she just escalated . She did stay on the blanket . She wasn't a foot from us so I just continued circle time . All day long was the same , outside time , lunch ... I know she was looking for attention so I really praised her if she was doing anything remotely appropriate . Told mom at pick up and there's no real back up there. This morning as soon as walked in the door she apologized and mom said she had leap pad taken away . But starts with the same behaviour . She has a 7 yr old sister who tells all about bad nights at home , screaming ect
This child acts like a mean 13 yr old , if I give her one on one she is happy but the minute I say no she starts . She's very manipulative in her speech and I'm wondering if I called her mom to pick her up for causing so much problems if it would make a difference in how mom handles her . If I text and say she is having a difficult morning she texts back she's bad at home , getting worse don't know why !!! I have an assistant but she is still taking up most of our time , which isn't fair to the rest of the kids . Her sister days m--- says she likes to yell at you miss c , but the things she yells are her age , "I'm going to growl at you , I'm not listening , and my favourite , whatever . She is full time and dies have issues at home , is it a phase or should I just give notice ??