I wasn't insinuating it either Second Time Around. Just wanted to say that I know that some kids can REALLY push our buttons and it can make for really crappy days and change the whole dynamic of things with the daycare and other kids. Meant it to be that if this kid is pushing all your buttons then its time for her to go!! Not suggesting anything else LOL.
I had a school age boy when I first opened and aye aye aye I can sooo relate and he left after 3 weeks with NO support from mom either.