I have never termed a child but I think I would definitely consider terming a child like this. He sorta has 2 strikes against him right off the bat, 1 being part time and the other being AP. The 3rd would be that he has not settled down after 4 weeks of care with you.

If you can afford it, I would term. If you can't, I would have talk with mom and discuss all these concerns and give her a timeline of when you would like to see this child be transitioned. If she chooses to keep AP him than that is fine and by all means her choice but it will also be her choice to have to find a new dcp.