Give me strength....PLEASE!!

[2cuteboys]

It does make it harder when the child isn't just sad and needing comfort, because that's something you could do (or at least attempt).

My newest didn't really settle in for close to 3-4 weeks, and she's still not great (and it's been 3.5 months) - doesn't nap well or consistently, constantly wants to be held and will occasionally burst into tears when she doesn't get that, will cry at mealtimes if food isn't presented within seconds of bring put in her chair or the entire meal if it's not something she likes.

Honestly I came really close to terminating several times. And had I known that I would still be having these issues this far in, I would have. I think you are making a good decision in giving the two week "probation!" And stick to your guns! If it's not working out, don't be afraid to let him go! You will thank yourself in a few months time!