I can't imagine a parent not having a good reason for sending their child to daycare under 3 months??? Also lets remember our role in all of this. It doesn't matter whether they have a good reason or not, or whether we think they should be at home with their mother to a certain age, or not. It is irrelevant what our personal opinions are in this situation, as it is up to the parents to establish what works for their family and their needs, not us. It really doesn't matter what we think about their choices, we should just think about what we are willing to take on and what we are able to handle. Some people wont take more than 1 child under 2 years while others prefer a full house of 1 year olds. A lot of providers wont take school age kids where as others exclusively take that age group. It's really whatever your preferences are and obviously taking into account the demand in your area. Are there lots of B&A programs in your area? In schools, centres and pick up programs like karate? If so then that is probably an age group with little need in your area. Are there many daycare centres and preschools? This will effect the demand overall but also give you an idea of the availability for infant care and preschool programs( 2+).
When my kids were young it seemed to make the most sense to get kids the same age as my then 3 year old son but I quickly learned that didn't work for me. A child starting at that age has already established their ideas and understanding of rules and if they don't match my parenting style then it is a battle to have them change at that point. I had lots of trouble with power struggle, kids wanting to be the top dog and both my son and them started to act out. So after a few months of my son deteriorating and the other kids poor behaviors escalating, added to parents who didn't want to put the hard work in to correcting this, I termed them and replaced them with 1 year olds. Even though my kids are older now and in middle school and nearly high school, I still don't take children older than 18 mths. I like to get them in early and mold them myselfBy the time they get to 2 years old there are far less incidents of temper tantrums as they know I just don't put up with it and we have an amazing group of daycare friends
As I said its personal preference and with you having a few of your own its something to consider. This is just my experience which seems to be common with other providers but I have also heard of others saying their own child has a best friend in the dck of a similar age. Its also just down to the child and their parents too.


































By the time they get to 2 years old there are far less incidents of temper tantrums as they know I just don't put up with it and we have an amazing group of daycare friends
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