I'm not a fan of terming. I prefer to work with the parent and child and find a solution. I feel that terming isn't helping the child, it's just passing them on to someone else. My job is to care for the children but also to teach them.

However, there are cases that I would term and being disrespectful and violent towards my own child (if I had any lol) after months of working on the problem would be one of them.