I find it's easier to deal with issues when your not involved , want me to come handle it ?? Lol jk !! I sympathize !! I do !!!
I have been guilty of letting the same thing go on !! Starting each morning at 6:30 am !!! Just complete attention needed every minute !!! It was so tiring !! Then the children would walk out with dcm saying ", we don't like it here " ugh I tried , believe me !! It was so hard for me to admit it was over ( I hate quitting ) so I took full advantage when she needed to change hours !! I just said I couldn't accommodate the time change . Pretty passive huh ?
It was such a relief !!