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At your dayhome , I wouldn't say anything I would just leave it . It is a power struggle I believe and one not worth stressing about IMO .
I started potty charts for 2 of my dcg , and bought a fancy princess box with fun ( cheap ) treats , 12 potty stickers = a potty prize
With your dcg you might have to lower it , and lavish positive praise on the potty people and let her decide . I know prob a lot may not agree with me , I have just found it will happen when they want it to . You will not be able to make her go , you can't have her sitting on the potty all day ! Dcp can do as they feel best at home but you care for more than one child .