Mom actually called and spoke to my hubby who has been home for the day and was encouraging dcg on the potty. He basically told her that in the best interests for all they should take a month's break and she agreed. I am so relieved!

When dcg got up from nap her pull up was so full of pee/poop. She had been holding it in poor kid.
Thanks again everyone for your advice. I was getting scared for her.