thanks for the feedback. I guess I am a little bit more laid back about kids getting sick in general. My daughter caught hand, foot and mouth disease at a dc centre and I didn't get annoyed that another child "got my kid sick." I figure it comes with the territory of having a little kid and also for them spending their days in a petri-dish of bacteria aka dc. I told the mom to keep her home for 24 hrs as per policy. Letting her stay for her nap though. Doesn't make sense to me to have her go home now as she is sleeping.