your dc, how do you handle when other parents ask about it? We are a really small group (3 families) so it is obvious if someone is no longer attending. I have a set of parents who will scrutinize the sign in sheet and then say, "Oh, Johnny isn't here anymore?" or something similar.
I have always just answered yes or no but feel like they are expecting more from me. I can understand that a family might wonder why someone is no longer there but I don't think it's any of their business and sometimes get the impression that they are expecting me to tell them why.
I think that I might feel a little self-conscious about this b/c I have lost 3 clients since Christmas (termed one due to lots of issues, lost another due to mom's job hours switching, lost another due to potential nut allergy) so feel like maybe I need to offer reasons to justify their leaving. Maybe they feel a little self-conscious like they are on the chopping block next?
Is there a good phrase to convey to them that while I always look for long term clients, sometimes life happens and clients have to move on? I don't want them to think that I am hiding anything but I am trying to find the balance between satisfying a current client's trust in my care versus a prior client's right to privacy.
As well, do you address when new clients are starting? I have 2 new dcks starting in a few weeks and wondering if these same parents are going to question this, too? I was thinking of addressing this in our next newsletter, just that we were excited to be welcoming new friends.