I see what you are saying mickyc. There is a provider in my area who has 3 of her own and then has 5 others in her care. I see her out for walks and she has a tough time corralling her herd of kiddies. I then think to myself, I can only have 5 for safety reasons etc. and other provider has 8. Don't get me wrong, for me 5 is enough, I know my limitations, but still, I do have a sense of unfairness.
Of course, I am sure she is an excellent provider as the kiddies always look happy and dressed appropriately for the weather however, I do feel she is over extending herself. What makes me know 5 is enough for me yet she thinks 8 is ok for her?
Just wondering.