Bringing toys, blankets, etc

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I don't allow toys from home but do allow a blanket or comfort item for naptime. I have had parents allow their child to brin a toy in because they don't want to deal with the backlash from the child so in that case I usually just wait until the parent leaves and take the toy away. I would definitely do this with the jewellery though as it could be a choking hazard.
You can either approach it this way, or you can just be upfront about why you don't want toys, etc. from home (sharing, safety, etc.).
It used to really drive me crazy because I thought the parents were intentionally disrespecting me but I honestly think that some just don't see te whole picture from our perspective.