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    I was so excited for this week

    So lately I've been really questioning this career choice. We literally just had 3 weeks straight of not being able to go outside and I blamed a lot of it on that.

    On the plus side, after being outside with my kids all weekend, I was finally excited to start this week, I'm feeling refreshed - guess I just missed the outdoors.

    Then I got an email tonight - DCM of 16 month old thinks he's been successful potty training this weekend, so she wants to give it a shot... Oy! This week is about to get a lot more complicated.

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    16months!!!!! Holy cow.....did she discuss this with you prior to starting....nothing worse than a parent who either excludes us from their plans, or trains to early and IMHO and experience, 16 months is far to early...good luck!!

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    That is early, but I've seen it be successful. I wouldn't stress over it or put too much pressure on yourself. Focus on being energized and feeling great. If the parents think it's time, put them on the potty after snack, lunch, and nap and see if they go. I wouldn't stress too much. I'm really happy you feel wonderful this week. I feel the same way after a beautiful weekend. Good luck and keep us posted.

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    Dcmom doesn't expect him/her to come to daycare without wearing a pull-up, does she?

    If the kid is interested in sitting on the potty when everyone else does, great, but I damn sure would not be allowing them to come without pull-ups.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jammiesandtea View Post
    Dcmom doesn't expect him/her to come to daycare without wearing a pull-up, does she?

    If the kid is interested in sitting on the potty when everyone else does, great, but I damn sure would not be allowing them to come without pull-ups.

    Yeah, my policy is that kid is in a pull up or diaper for TWO WEEKS accident-free. There is NO WAY I would allow the kid to come in underwear.

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    Glad you are feeling more upbeat. I had the same feeling last week and then on Friday we went out for 2 long leisurely walks in the sunshine and that seemed to reboot me.

    Yeah, I've had that early declaration of a child being trained. Kids will first succeed at home and then they have to master the toilet at daycare. Pull ups are a definite must until they use the potty successfully at daycare for a few weeks. Can this child even tell you they have to go?
    Good luck with this parent!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mimi View Post
    Glad you are feeling more upbeat. I had the same feeling last week and then on Friday we went out for 2 long leisurely walks in the sunshine and that seemed to reboot me.

    Yeah, I've had that early declaration of a child being trained. Kids will first succeed at home and then they have to master the toilet at daycare. Pull ups are a definite must until they use the potty successfully at daycare for a few weeks. Can this child even tell you they have to go?
    Good luck with this parent!!
    That is also what I was thinking Mimi. Not only is there the physiological capability of controlling bladder and bowel but the ability to communicate their need independently.When children claim to have been trained this early I hazard a guess that it is more like conditioned and partially trained not completely dry and out of pull ups/training pants within a few weeks, regardless of what anyone says. Never understand why some people rush to train so early when it would serve the child better to focus on more important psychosocial development at this age. I notice more and more that first child is rushed by parents, seems to be a bit of a competition, and then second child is held back as though parents don't want to lose their baby. Obviously that's a generalization but it is what I seem to be noticing more and more. In my experience when training is to early, it nearly always backfires at some point. I will not even entertain training a boy until 2 years and in most cases, depending on the child of course, I quite often recommend pushing it back till 2 1/2. The earliest I will do for girls is 2 but I have had a couple of girls a month or two younger ask to try the potty when an older one is training here who have resulted in unplanned training in a couple of days to the delight of parents but I'm talking 22 months at the youngest and it's a girl thing for sure. 16months is barely out of infancy. Fingers crossed it all goes well for you, there's always "that child" who breaks all the rules of development and if they do succeed then that's great news all around

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    We'll see how it goes today.

    Apparently child will tell mom when they need to go (very verbal in other areas) and will start "holding." I really prefer kids be able to do some portion of the routine independently, but if it's as cpnsistant as they say, I'll give it a shot. Really the only reason I like them to be independent is so that I don't have to leave the little ones alone as long... And really, he's the littlest one.

    I don't have huge expectations and I already made it clear that he needs to be in a diaper this week and if he's very successful and moving on, he'll be put right back in trainers or diapers if he starts having accidents again. If it works, that's great, but I'm all about training the child, not me. For me to take him every hour at 16 months is not going to help anyone, just add to my workload, so if he's not communicating it to me, we'll hold off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2cuteboys View Post
    We'll see how it goes today.

    Apparently child will tell mom when they need to go (very verbal in other areas) and will start "holding." I really prefer kids be able to do some portion of the routine independently, but if it's as cpnsistant as they say, I'll give it a shot. Really the only reason I like them to be independent is so that I don't have to leave the little ones alone as long... And really, he's the littlest one.

    I don't have huge expectations and I already made it clear that he needs to be in a diaper this week and if he's very successful and moving on, he'll be put right back in trainers or diapers if he starts having accidents again. If it works, that's great, but I'm all about training the child, not me. For me to take him every hour at 16 months is not going to help anyone, just add to my workload, so if he's not communicating it to me, we'll hold off.
    Sounds like you have a great plan to satisfy the parents request to train but also to have boundaries on what you are prepared to do for training at this age. Good Luck and let us know how you get on

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2cuteboys View Post
    For me to take him every hour at 16 months is not going to help anyone, just add to my workload, so if he's not communicating it to me, we'll hold off.
    AH, good to read this and know you are still making sure YOU are happy and YOUR policies are being followed! Good on ya'!

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